List the people you admire and look to for advice…
I have a one stop shop when it comes to mentor/advice.
His philosophy and therefore mine comes with sage advice through study and practice.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discourses_of_Epictetus?wprov=sfti1
A journal helps to communicate with self when mentor/advice is a non living variety.
Stay out of the limelight….
You benefit through practice.
The proper use of impressions are key.
Many slogans and or mantrum will have a helpful learning benefit.
Enough said.