Is art a love?  It’s like an equation, one part of knowledge and one part of effort. If a sensation which is experience is a matter of chance. The book is the Art of loving and the author is Enrich Fromm. I like to think the book has some chance or luck to it as well. Love or be loved I’ll do it. I’ll need it to be reciprocated to make it better how to be loved and how to love other being loveable seems to be successful and have sex appeal in this consumer culture we live in packages like personality much like a value of a package, which is comprised of body mind and heart.

The marriage and consummation can seem intimate exciting and with in a short time, become boring and falling out of love as this sense is lost to negative motion, states of mind and even another practice.

This notion of nothing being easier than to love has continued to be a prevalent idea. There is hardly any activity any enterprise which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations and yet which fails so regularly as love.

But I speak of incremental learning to learn to be a better life and I use critical analysis to find a better way to live a good life.

Since the failure to love, I need to examine and proceed to the meaning of love. What are the necessary ways to learn any kind of art, the art of living the art of loving, the art of ageing, the art of being any art can be learnt, and it can be conveniently broken into two parts.

 The first is the theory of love and the second is the practice of love. I have done this with living or the art of living by studying to learn the way to live as a stoic, a adult, a mindful man or a person in the theory and digested parts into practice by reminding myself of this theory to live with those aspects within my control, the intrinsic ways to treat myself to learn this may let my curiosity lead to the stoic for taoist and become intuitive with practice in a mindful way to know this art when applying parts of the theory over and over through practice with what I eventually know, felt enthusiastically used like steps, patterns, even shapes or a mantra like a personal philosophy, this blending into one is more intuitive. And it’s like the art of living a theory practised and felt and talked about, wrote about, discussed with family and friends, applied to self and therefore others, living, loving ageing, being and this describes the way, so you do it with the proper impression with mastery this is what Fromm, The Art Of Loving, call the third factor: loving must be the utmost important.

There must not be nothing else in the world more important than the art this holds true for everything you learn like music, medicine, carpentry or what I’m saying for what you learn for yourself which is love, living, ageing, being. And maybe this can describe the answer to why people try so rarely to learn this art in spite of the deep seated craving for love (the survival mode called reproduction to produce humanity).

I’m learning to use this information to express how to live a better life.