In the real world we all have mixed opinions, feelings, experiences and a lot of unknown stuff.
In the optimistic world, it is difficult to overcome this realism, but the philosophy of Leibniz states “the world is the best of all possible worlds” There is a framework here to look at the big picture.
For me to learn realism, skepticism, and process self-doubt is a starting point of my process. I know there are many other aspects to life that will help me ferret out the truth, meaning and purpose.
So, to argue may not always be necessary, much less arguing is advised to help remove some violence from the world that needs less violence.
I am a work in process, I argue, I learn and I live the best I know now, my optimism is growing!