The first time is for all of us.
We learn everything this way.
You see how someone does it, usually someone you know and probably care about.
Everyone you know cares and knows about it.
In a lot of ways we are all the same, and that is part of being human.
But finally, when we all join in for this act.
The outcome is a lot like our population.
It takes a lot of givers to make things work.