How can you be me?
Think about how everyone tries to fit into society.
Do your best to be yourself and do no harm.
I am being single, an atheist and a writer while working a day job to maintain my tie to society as a whole.
I routinely think outside the box, I adapt to change and work exceptionally hard for society.
I maintain my self by spending the time,energy money and other resources.
Yet, I follow all the AI advice above. I call this living the good life.
Good luck with your journey to becoming authentic.